Woman Susah lah!!
Written on 4:30 PM by Joshua
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. Woman are not easy people to communicate!
1- Women never say what they really mean.
Instead of directly expressing a point or asking a question (as men do), a woman will talk all around a subject, expecting men to somehow decipher what she wants or needs.
For her, being indirect is a way of life. A woman would rather talk and talk and talk, and let men play guessing games rather than come to the point. Here are some examples:
When she says, "It's your decision," what she really means is, "You'd better know what I really want and give it to me right now."
When she says, "Go ahead, do what you want," she really means, "I don't want you to, and you're going to pay for this later."
This is woman's communication.
2- Women focus on talking, not finding solutions.
Since they aren't used to taking action, women talk instead of seeking out solutions to problems . What's more, women think that any problem can be solved by simply talking about it.
So instead of making decisions, they will endlessly catalog alternatives, seeking advice from anyone and everyone -- then never act upon any of the suggestions.
When it finally does come time to make a decision, a woman will often turn to a man. But if he chooses wrong -- meaning if he selects an option that isn't what she really wants -- she will pout and bitch and punish him for not knowing her unspoken true desires .
3- Women think with their emotions.
Because they are driven by hormones, female thought patterns are far divorced from logic. Women love to indulge themselves in feelings and impressions -- this is why their behavior is so often erratic, moody and irrational.
They think and speak in estrogen .
What's more, they have the frustrating ability to think in two directions at once, each diametrically opposed to the other, so nothing ever gets done. Often they will say one thing, then actually do the complete opposite, or take meaning entirely out of context and jump to emotion-based conclusions.
For example, if a man says to a woman, "I like your hair," she'll come back with, "You mean you didn't like it before? You're embarrassed of me, aren't you? You think I'm ugly. You don't want to be seen with me."
So woman ain't simple!! Feel and Understand them. Communication would be easier with woman =]
Instead of directly expressing a point or asking a question (as men do), a woman will talk all around a subject, expecting men to somehow decipher what she wants or needs.
For her, being indirect is a way of life. A woman would rather talk and talk and talk, and let men play guessing games rather than come to the point. Here are some examples:
When she says, "It's your decision," what she really means is, "You'd better know what I really want and give it to me right now."
When she says, "Go ahead, do what you want," she really means, "I don't want you to, and you're going to pay for this later."
This is woman's communication.
2- Women focus on talking, not finding solutions.
Since they aren't used to taking action, women talk instead of seeking out solutions to problems . What's more, women think that any problem can be solved by simply talking about it.
So instead of making decisions, they will endlessly catalog alternatives, seeking advice from anyone and everyone -- then never act upon any of the suggestions.
When it finally does come time to make a decision, a woman will often turn to a man. But if he chooses wrong -- meaning if he selects an option that isn't what she really wants -- she will pout and bitch and punish him for not knowing her unspoken true desires .
3- Women think with their emotions.
Because they are driven by hormones, female thought patterns are far divorced from logic. Women love to indulge themselves in feelings and impressions -- this is why their behavior is so often erratic, moody and irrational.
They think and speak in estrogen .
What's more, they have the frustrating ability to think in two directions at once, each diametrically opposed to the other, so nothing ever gets done. Often they will say one thing, then actually do the complete opposite, or take meaning entirely out of context and jump to emotion-based conclusions.
For example, if a man says to a woman, "I like your hair," she'll come back with, "You mean you didn't like it before? You're embarrassed of me, aren't you? You think I'm ugly. You don't want to be seen with me."
So woman ain't simple!! Feel and Understand them. Communication would be easier with woman =]
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