Familes Today (Majority)
Written on 5:49 AM by Melcolm
Have you ever felt as if you and your parents are getting further and further away from each other? I mean as in your relationships... Times when you were a small kid.. compared to your college self now... It's as if the stuff that we can babble about is becoming more and more little... I personally think that this is very common nowadays as the communication between the child and parent is decreasing as the days go by... This however, is the fault of both parties..
The Child
The phrase "you ruin my life" often occur not only in many dramas today that involves a conflict between a typical teenager today and his/her but almost in every teenagers life... Teenagers nowadays blame their parents for not giving them enough freedom and stuff like that.. However, before making a statement as harsh as "you ruin my life"... have you ever thought about it first.. I mean.. if this is true, would your parents even bother giving you education... what the heck... WOULD YOUR PARENTS EVEN BOTHER TO RAISE U UP?? they could just dump you somewhere and a HUGE burden would be off their shoulders
The Parents
Some parents i must say... Still treat their teenage child as a 6 year old.. they simply cant accept the fact that their little boy/girl has grown to become a hairy adult... These parents are too protective of their children and hence, their children would not be so comfortable to talk to their parents about anything at all..
How To Solve This Problem?
SPEND MORE TIME TOGETHER.. talk about stuff... be open.. let both parties know what the problem is... parents need to let go of their children and not be so protective of their children.. give them space to grow... and to the sons/daughters... KNOW that your parents LOVE you no matter what..
Basically, this whole post is about the importance of communication... After seeing a show in class today, i finally realized how really IMPORTANT communication is.... so, i just had to write something regarding this relationship thing
