Types Of Relationships To Avoid..(FOR GirLs OnlY)
Written on 8:08 AM by christopher
If you�ve been through some forms of relationship, then you�ve likely seen a pattern that appears to recur with each one of them. A relationship with a guy usually starts as wonderful. This is at least for the first few months. This however regresses into the inevitable problems as the relationship moves on.
It could all start by him becoming uninteresting or remote. Due to this you may start to wonder if he�s seeing any girls on the side. When this happens you can�t seem to get through to him as effortlessly as before.
Check out the three common bad types of relationships presented below and see if they are recognizable.
Bad Relationship #1 � The �Instant� Relationship
If you ever catch yourself dating worrying why a guy you just dated for a few weeks hasn�t been returning your calls then it would help if you give yourself a good smack in the head. It doesn�t stop there; more often than not you would also think that he might be seeing other women. You in turn will make a fuss every time he doesn�t keep in touch with you. This, my darling is what we call an �instant� relationship. You have more chances of hitting the lottery than having a happy ending.
For the first few weeks of a relationship a man is most likely only in it for the fun and good times. No man is ever going to immediately think that you are �the one.� Neither is he going to toy with the idea about settling down with you. You must be careful during this time. If you act very clingy and fuss over petty things, then this could possibly lead him to the conclusion that you�re one of those stereotypical women who rush into relationships. This is a definite turn off.
Bad Relationship #2 � The Convincer/Resistor Relationship
Most women conjure about the things they could do to persuade their men to do certain things. Things such as committing to a more meaningful relationship or improve undesirable behavior. Women who try to do this, intentionally or not, only succeed in driving their man away. Here�s why.
How will you take it if your man suddenly tells you that your values, lifestyle, and misgivings were incorrect? Naturally you will think that he�s mad and he plainly doesn�t understand you. I�m quite sure you�d start having qualms about settling down with a man who can�t see eye to eye with you.
Sorry to say, this kind of thing is a two way street.
